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Submissive Frenzy – Identifying and How to Handle Frenzy

January 16, 2018 admin Leave a comment

A common psychological process for a submissive is often coined as ‘submissive frenzy’.  This is apparent when they get a…

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Oops!  I Fucked Up – Making a Mistake and How to Make Amends

August 22, 2017 admin Leave a comment

You can be the most conscientious learner, the most attentive, and best negotiator, but you will eventually come to a…

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Leading a Sheep to Slaughter – Negotiation tips for Dominants

August 3, 2017 admin Leave a comment

Before the walk is walked, the talk has to be talked…or something like that.  BDSM walks the boundaries of social…

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How to build Confidence as a Dominant – Or Fake it Like a Pro, Part II

July 20, 2017 admin Leave a comment

When you are first starting to develop your Dominant skills, ‘faking it’ is a neat parlour trick.  If reliance and…

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How to Build Confidence as a Dominant – Or Fake it Like a Pro, Part 1

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When you define actions which describe Dominance, and also confidence, most (if not all) overlap.  Strong, decisive, control, trustworthy, calm,…

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I found a submissive – Now what? Figuring out what you want

July 8, 2017 admin Leave a comment

Social media pick-up culture makes it easy to find people.  Even play once or twice with said person.  This means…

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Welcome to the Top Side – Teaching How To Be Dominant

June 18, 2017 admin Leave a comment

It’s been almost a couple of decades now since I attended my first play party with my Dominant.  Munches were…

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Posted in: Personal Story Filed under: How to be Dominant, Personal, Story

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